Four generations of Sikh woman’s Sikhi and identity changing as society influences us more than Guru Sahib. People have began to modify Sikhi to go around them rather modify themselves to go around Sikhi.Money cannot buy Sikhi. Gurbani is to transform our lives by listening, understanding and applying. Those who read Gurbani will take benefit and those who listen to it will take benefit. But blessings cannot be brought with money.What matters most? The Panj Kakkaar represent Sikh values, while modern priorities can draw us away from life’s true purpose.Sikhi is against tobacco, smoking, vaping or hukkah. Sikhi helps us to live a smart, healthy and holy life.Sikhi is against drinking alcohol / liquor. Sikhi helps us to live a smart, healthy and holy life.Sikhi promotes eating food prepared by trusted hands, valuing both physical hygiene and spiritual cleanliness.A shift in values: the Panj Kakkaar of Sikhi versus modern priorities that distract us from the true goal of life.Sikhi promotes decency, modesty and self-respect for both men and women. Sikh attire reflects these values.We go to the Gurdwara Sahib to connect with Waheguru’s Naam, not to seek recognition or feed our ego.The purpose of visiting the Gurdwara Sahib is to connect with Waheguru’s Naam, practise humility and overcome ego, not to seek personal recognition.