In today’s world, some parents, for psychological reasons, choose not to introduce their children to any specific religion. They believe that children should grow up and independently choose their own beliefs and spiritual path. These parents often refrain from providing religious or moral instruction, assuming that children will develop their own values over time. However, this approach is flawed, as it leaves children without the necessary spiritual and moral guidance during their formative years. Just like plants need proper care and direction to grow in a structured way, children require a foundation of values to grow into responsible, morally grounded adults.
Children are naturally curious and constantly ask questions about the world around them. When they do not receive clear, meaningful answers to their questions, they may feel a sense of spiritual emptiness. Without adequate religious and moral guidance, children can grow up in a state of confusion, unsure about their purpose or moral compass. The idea that children will one day select their own religion or moral code when they are older is unrealistic. As they grow, they are less likely to have the time, inclination, or opportunity to thoughtfully explore these important matters on their own.
It is clear that every child has the right to receive the best guidance from their parents in all aspects of life, including religion. If parents are Sikhs, they have an obligation to share the wisdom and principles of Sikhi with their children. In the Rahat Nama of Bhai Desa Singh, Guru Gobind Singh called upon Sikhs to raise their children in the Sikh faith and to initiate them into the Guru’s teachings. Denying children religious education means depriving them of the invaluable support that the Guru’s teachings can provide. Without this foundation, children are left without a clear moral framework, resulting in uncertainty and spiritual confusion.
Religious instruction in childhood is not simply about teaching a set of beliefs; it is about equipping children with the moral tools they need to navigate life’s challenges. Life’s temptations and difficulties are often sudden and powerful, and without a strong moral foundation, children are more likely to be swayed by negative influences. While promoting social responsibility is important, it is not enough to ensure that children develop the strength to resist harmful influences. The moral teachings of Guru Sahib offer a comprehensive framework that provides children with the guidance they need to make sound, ethical decisions in the face of adversity.
A positive approach to this issue involves helping children understand the benefits of the Sikh ethical code. When children learn about the moral support offered by Guru Sahib and the strength they can derive from following their teachings, they are better equipped to face life’s challenges. These teachings provide not only moral clarity but also spiritual strength, giving children a sense of purpose and direction that will serve them throughout their lives.
In conclusion, it is essential that children receive religious and moral education from an early age. This guidance shapes their character and provides them with the tools to navigate the complexities of life with integrity and wisdom. Sikh parents, in particular, have a responsibility to share the profound teachings of Gurmat with their children, ensuring that they grow up with a solid moral and spiritual foundation. By doing so, parents help their children lead lives of purpose, integrity, and spiritual fulfillment.
